And the truth is, I just don't care.

Okay, so us women have our guy problems.

I'm going through one right now with one of my best friend's ex's.

No, we don't like each other, he's just the biggest jerk I've ever known.

He and I never got along in the first place.

The reason?

He smells really bad, he thinks so highly of himself, and he just...doesn't know when to stop.

I have no idea what attracted her to him but all I can say is that he better be out of my life.

My friend has a tendency to...well...go out with guys that won't help her emotionally.

She is probably one of the more emotionally unstable people I know of,

she is one of the most sensitive people I know about,

and she's just a great person who doesn't deserve to be treated the way she does.

I think that she kind of sets herself up for it.

Like, all of us friends try to warn her about a guy,

but I think she's too concerned about not being single

and is caught up in liking somebody.

Now, I wouldn't have much of a problem with this but you haven't met the guys she dates.

The guys she dates are just rude.

They come across as nice but when they're going out with her, she's blinded by

"love" and doesn't even want to believe it.

She tries but it's too hard.

My friend is too fragile and needs guys that will be good to her AND her friends.

She tends to pick the guy who other people don't necessarily like.

She's lucky that she's so nice but...they may take advantage of her.

She ends up "loving" the guy who was so mean to her.

She bad mouthed about him every time he talked to her and what happens?

They date.

Yay...

Her and guys are like pasta and dirt, they don't mix well together.

She always feels like she needs to improve herself for others,

like she needs to change.

Change is a good thing once in a while but I think she's fine the way she is,

she doesn't need to keep changing.

Perhaps this is just not the way to go,

ranting on about her flaws.

She's a wonderful person,

she's beautiful and it makes me SO jealous.

I'm not even lying.

She is just the luckiest person in the world because she has so many people who love her

and once in a while, it would be nice for her to realize that.

She was or maybe still is depressed but I think she pretty much has no real reason to be.

She was a lucky one in the depression department.

She got the light side and yet she cut.

See, I was clinically depressed, I think she's just depressed but, I never once cut myself.

It doesn't mean I didn't hurt myself in some way but permanent scarring is just...not the right way to go.

All this post was supposed to do is state that people have problems and they handle it in different ways.

The title?

Oh.

It means that I'm such an unsensitive person that I don't care about the small things people whine about.

The insignificant details that don't mean a thing yet they make themselves believe that it's the worst hting in the world i.e. a boy breaking up with you.

I have to admit, it hurts but don't make yourself go crazy over something so small that will only make you stronger?

Ok this post is long enough, havea great day :)

EDIT:

What I said about my friend is completely observations and opinions which may or may not be true.